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My First Book, Connections, is out!
Loneliness is a feeling that many of us face at some point in our lives. Whether you are a student navigating academic pressures, someone battling addiction, or a corporate employee caught in a dull routine, loneliness can creep in and impact every aspect of life. It's a heavy load to bear, often triggering feelings of despair and hopelessness.
In my book, Connections: Transform Pain of Loneliness to a Meaningful, Happy Life, I share my journey through loneliness and how I
Ertha Neha
Apr 33 min read


Blog 3/3: 12 Things To Do To Heal From Silent Treatment
“Learn 12 trauma-informed ways to heal from silent treatment and emotional neglect, reclaim your voice, and make silence safe and sacred again.”
shangreilasharma
Nov 288 min read


Blog 2/3: When SILENCE hurts, and when it can heal
THE LIGHT SIDE OF SILENCE - 10 Ways Silence Can Heal In the first part of the blog we have explored the shadowed edges of silence, the...
shangreilasharma
Aug 224 min read


Blog 1/3: When SILENCE hurts, and when it can heal
Silence can be a powerful tool of emotional abuse. Discover 9 hidden ways it damages trust, connection, and mental health—and how to heal.
shangreilasharma
Aug 116 min read


Coming Home to Yourself: Healing Shame and Breaking Free from Emotional Cycles
Understanding the Shame Cycle & Drama Triangle in Relationships and Recovery Why This Matters – Especially in India Across India today,...
shangreilasharma
Jul 306 min read


Hypervigilance to Inner Calm: 10 Self-Soothing Practices That Helped Me Heal
If your life feels “busy”—with a dozen distractions running in the background, a restless need to monitor every corner of your world, and...
shangreilasharma
Jul 254 min read


Unlocking Emotional Wellbeing: Understanding the Connection Between Bodily Sensations and Feelings
Body constantly scans the environment and often received information before the mind can interpret it. Have you ever had a tightness in...
shangreilasharma
Jul 205 min read


Not Bad – Just Badly Adapted: How Compulsive Behaviors Begin (and Can End) ☕💡
From Ruin to Renewal: New Life Emerges Where Healing Begins. Understanding the Emotional Roots of Addiction and the Path to Recovery As a...
shangreilasharma
Jul 164 min read


When Work Stress Becomes a Trap: Understanding Substance Use in Young Professionals
“I deserve this drink.” But what if that reward is actually a trap? In today’s high-pressure work culture, especially for young...
shangreilasharma
Jul 135 min read


Procrastination Is Not Laziness — It is a Trauma Response
Procrastination may not be laziness, but a symptom of unresolved childhood trauma. Learn how developmental trauma, freeze response, and nervous system dysregulation affect your ability to take action.
shangreilasharma
Jul 85 min read


The Incomplete Picture: How Childhood Trauma Disrupts the Brain’s Meaning-Making — A Gestalt Perspective
Our brains are nature’s most sophisticated pattern-makers. Like a master artist sketching the missing lines in a half-finished picture,...
Ertha Neha
Jun 75 min read


Modern Life Is Making Women Sick — and What We Can Do About It
"Often, your mind is the most dangerous place to be. Too many memories, too many land mines." - Shangreila Sharma Last week, I shared my...
Ertha Neha
May 314 min read


The body doesn't lie, but it plays tricks at times
I was once molested in a crowded Indian train when I was about 15-16 years old and traveling from Jalgaon to Mumbai (then Bombay) to rejoin
Ertha Neha
May 234 min read


Why I Chose Succulents: A Love Letter to Quiet Resilience
When I first built my website, I scrolled through countless images before landing on one—a simple, quiet succulent unfurling. Something in me softened. It wasn’t flashy or loud, just alive in its own slow, deliberate way. Stillness. Depth. A kind of aliveness that didn’t need to prove itself.
Ertha Neha
May 132 min read
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